THE MAN I MET - By Ololade Agboola

  The very seconds I met him in my life, I took him as one of "those guys", as we carried on in our conversation, my mindset changed but I still don't find a definition for this young man; I begin to wonder WHO CAN THIS MAN BE? After been found engrossed in a deep discussion with him,  few minutes later, I couldn't found him again! all what I could see is a light; though a bright light, immediately words sprung up from my mind that "He's a blessing to people". Then I concluded within me that for this great man to be born;
    Blessed is the womb that carry him,
    Blessed is the family that birth him,
    Blessed is the day he was born,
    Blessed is every November 23rd,
    Blessed is you (ABIOLA OLUWASOLA) for you are  A GIFT TO THE WORLD ...
       HAPPY
             BIRTHDAY
                     ABSOL
🎄🌲🌷🌲🎄hearty cheers!!!


Written by Ololade Agboola

MY SWEETHEART

You r beauty stops my heart

Each time I see you

For your love is so abundant in my heart

The secret passage that goes from one heart

To the other has been filled with your love

How can you be so amazing!!!

Happiness is everywhere

At the announcement of your presence

 Isn’t it funny how love bringS with it

A strange kind of yearning

A yearning evident in the mind body and eyes

I strongly yearn for you

I want to spend my life with you

True love resides not on the lips but eyes

So look into my eyes when I say I love you

Because only my eyes reflect my true love for  you

My Sweetheart 

WHO IS SHE?

She is crazy but not lazy

Beautiful but not a fool

She’s humorous but not nervous

She is popular but normal

She is fun because she run

She is light even in the night

She is loved by many

Yet she does not love any

Many are confused about her love life

But she’s got no love life

I have seen different faces

At different phases of my life

But her face stands out

Even in her moody mood

She is not moody

They call her Bella

But I call her Amaka

She’s a friend

Not yet a girlfriend

She is BENEDICT SARAH AMAKA BELLA.

FIND A PURPOSE!!!

Of recent, I have heard a lot of fellow youths say “education o jawo!” some have even gone to the extent of saying they regret ever coming to school! Like seriously? Are you really serious?!! The most pathetic thing is when you ask them why? They’ll start quoting how Bill Gates did not go to school, how Mark Zuckerberg is a drop out and how Neymar didn’t see the four walls of school, OMG!!! Are you for real? Is that how far your six can take you?

One major important thing you’ve all failed to take cognizance of is the fact that these guys found a purpose for their lives with education (no matter how little) as the background foundation, you’ve all failed to know that Mark got admission into Harvard University, one of the world’s best University and he didn’t just drop out, he “dropped out” knowing fully that he has a couch to fall on, should he fail in the pursuit of his dream in which he found a purpose. Don’t also forget that Bill Gates is still on leave of absence at the same University (Harvard) so you see the role of education? Note that Education is not an end in itself but a means to an end, so if you let go of the means you might not get the end.

What is your purpose? You don’t know? Then look for one, find yourself a purpose, give yourself a sense of belonging, everything is not money, money will come when you have a purpose because purpose itself attracts money. Find yourself a purpose, look for people’s problem(s) and struggle to provide solution to it and let people know you for something, yes! Let them know you for something, we know Zuckerberg as the founder of Facebook, Bill Gates micro-soft and Neymar footballer, so what do people know you for? A liability or an asset? You don’t necessarily have to be a founder or pioneer, but you can be actively part of something. FIND A PURPOSE!!!  

To Survive

It is either you move

Or you are moved

It is either you hustle

Or you are hustled

You must be smart

Or you must be dull

You cannot be smart and dull

You just must be one to survive

ABSOL

My Love

Epitome of beauty

Zenith of prettiness

Climax of good looking

Is who you are

And that is what you are

I have been meeting beautiful ladies

But you stand out

Your second to none character stands you out

Your natural beauty is an asset

Your beauty shines even in the night

Without light you are a sight

I never get tired of looking at

Because you are my love

And I love you.

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BEAUTIFUL BUT DUMB

Beautifully she walked in

Beautifully she sat down

In the midst of people seated

Her hair beautifully made

With her face well made up

Could she be a sadist?

Jokes were cracked but she will not smile

She looked lost

This got all of us lost

But no one to find her

What is wrong with her?

No one knows

And isolation became inevitable

Because talking to her is nothing an impossible task

But here she is extremely beautiful

And highly pretty

And blessed with good body shape

At the point of departing

Her instructor came in

She smiled for the first time

Then we realized she was deaf and dumb

ABSOL 

WORSHIP HIM!!!

Why should you thank Him?

Why should you worship Him?

Why should you give him Praise?

Why should you even go into His vineyard

With either praise or thanksgiving?

Why worship?!!!

I will tell you why?

Yes maybe you don’t know

Or probably you know

But you don’t know that you know

That is it is good to give thanks to God

Because He is our God

To declare His loving kindness

In the morning is a must

And His faithfulness

In the night is a priority

For He is God Almighty

No wonder says the Psalmist

Oh give thanks unto the Lord for He is good

And His mercies endures forever

He never went to University

Yet the capability of His mentality

Supersedes  those of Professors

Even in their conformity

How wonderful He is

That wonders are His beautiful ways

The Author of authors

Father of father

God of gods

King of kings

Pilot of pilots

President of presidents

Lecturer of lecturers

At the mention of His identity

Principalities are in Jeopardy

No vacancy for  impossibilities

Despite the density of His responsibilities

Why worship Him?

You are still asking?

Don’t you know?

That He is the giver of life

Alpha and Omega

Worship Him because it is to your own Advantage

How?

Because He needs less  of you

It is you that needs More of Him

There are enough stones, trees, and animals

Ready to worship His majesty

If you don’t

So it is either you worship or worship

Because you cannot do to Him

But worship!!!!

WORSHIP HIM!!!

ABSOL

NO TO WAR

Hoo! Yea! War!!!

What’s it really good for?

Absolutely nothing!

Like absolutely nothing!

I have heard of wars

I have heard of how women/ladies

Were turned to whores

I have heard of wars

I have heard of how things have turned sour

Because of war

I am young

And have not lived for long

But I have studied history

Read of war story

None has ever been good

Because nothing about war is good

It is either you kill or you are killed

It’s aftermath has never been predictable

No one that has ever witnessed one

Will look forward for another one

Dear “IPOBians” we know you want to go

Though we don’t want you to go

But if you must go like Ghana

Go peacefully

And not the way of war

We don’t want war

And we say no to war

Together we can make Nigeria great

Let us go of our respective egos

And come together as one

And together Nigeria shall be great

God bless Nigeria!

Say NO! to war.

YOU WASTED MY TIME

You showed me what love is

Even when I didn’t know what it is

You gave me hope

Even when I thought there was no hope

You said you’ll be thinking about it

And so I waited for your verdict

I said I wanted friendship

You voicelessly said you wanted a relationship

I tried to run away from your company

But you will not stop keeping my company

I waited for you

Just for you

Because I fell in love with you

Reality dawn on me

When you said you never loved me

“it can’t work” was what you  said

Then I realized you wasted my time.  

ABSOL

I GIVE UP ON LOVE

I thought they said you are patient

And that you are caring

How come you turned out opposite

What is your usefulness?

You rendered me powerless

Turned my playfulness to seriousness

For your sake I let go of

My most cherished character

 “Craziness” and “Madness’

And embrace that which I hate

“Gentleness” and “Quietness’

I respected you

Even when you don’t deserve it

But then you turned out to be

Energy Sucker and strength removal

Because you’ve drained me so much

And now I am nothing

But a vagabond in the city of love

You ought to be a friend

But now you are nothing

But an enemy

I depart from you

And our paths never to cross again

Because I have given up on you

LOVE!

ABSOL

WHEN I WAS STUPID

When I was stupid and foolish

I did a lot of things that were stupid and foolish

When stupidity was in my blood

Even every little cell in my body

Behaved stupidly

My emotions behaved stupidly

My sense of reasoning was not left out

After all stupidity has no limit

 When I was stupid

I fell in love stupidly

I made my friends my enemies

And enemies friends

My stupidity reached its climax

When I thought there was no God

Until my savior and redeemer

Who made a way

Even when there seems to be no way

Through my dear daddy

And then I was taken out of

The shackles of stupidity

And now in Him I am wise.

MY BETTER HALF

To the whole world

You mean someone

But to me you’re not just someone

You mean the whole world

Your name brings joy to my heart

Because your love has filled my heart

Your appearance makes my day

Even from the first day

How can I stop loving you?

When my body, soul and spirit is for you?

Your absence makes me feel incomplete

Because your presence makes me complete

It was late before I realize you are my better half

Because you complete me my dear better half.

LIFE OF A HOUSEGIRL

The moment she steps in to the house

Madam goes on sabbatical leave

And becomes the Idi Amin of her Uganda

She no longer have her voice

As she’s  now a prisoner of diplomatic decorum

She automatically turns a celeb

As her name becomes the song in everybody’s mouth

Everything she do must be right

Even if she is not alright

She wakes up early in the morning

While madam enjoys early morning

Football match

And sleeps late in the night

Because everything must be in place at night

She is in a bigger trouble if oga at the top

Is of 2face genealogy

Then her troubles become two edged sword

She must satisfy mommy in the kitchen

And daddy in the other room

While thinking of her family

Back in the village

Oh what a life of a housegirl

If daddy and children should like her more than mommy

Then she is a witch

And thereby sent back to village

End of story.

ABSOL

WHEN I WILL STOP LOVING YOU

When I fell in love with you

I didn’t plan to stop loving you

But when you asked me

To stop loving you

I have decided to give you conditions

To stop loving you

 I will stop loving you

When you stop walking with your legs

When you don’t smile again

And when you stop bearing your name

I will stop loving you

When you stop being you

When you stop being beautiful

When you stop being the girl I fell for

And When you stop breathing and go to hell

ABSOL

BEFORE THE LIGHT

Before the light
we had no problem with light
Like a blind man we walked our streets
we did not complain
Because our minds were plane
But then they gave us light
In every nook and cranny of our environment
But unfortunately
The cloudy atmospheric condition
Have decided to put us in a dark condition
Depriving us of enjoying the sun in the night
Because we are no longer used to the Dark night

 

ABSOL

THE HARDER YOU THE SOFTER ME

When I asked you out
I was not asking for a hangout
I want you to be my girlfriend
Because I  saw in you  the quality of a best friend
So why are you being hard
By making things so hard
When I said I love you
I did not just want you
I wanted to be part of you
And you part of me
Because you mean so much to me
For how long will you keep me waiting
For every little cell of my body is tired of waiting
Let me know my fate
Before it is too late
So I will know either to walk away
or to remain your love all the way.

ABSOL

SOLDIERS OF BLOOD

War mongers is who they are

Citizens of every Nation

Capable of violating the territorial integrity of any nation

They don’t care who you are

Neither do they have respect for what you are

They don’t want to know either you are fine or ugly

Oh blood sucking monsters

All they want is to destroy and devour

They don’t care what position you are holding

Even if you are the manager of power holding

You can hardly foresee when and where they will attack from

You don’t see them in the daylight

Because their strength is in the night

And when they attack, all they want is the blood

Oh OAU BEDBUGS

The soldiers of Blood

The mighty men of valor

Capable of sucking the Suckables

We salute you

Our indispensable companion

The soldiers  of blood.

ABSOL

DEAR DADDY

DEAR DADDY

Whenever I look at you

I see a man of virtue

Your diplomatic decorum

Is enough to give instructions

Because your body language

Is second to none

The pride of Ile Akeran

The joy and hero of Olatorera Atoke

The courageous father of Ajike

Akinkanju baba Adigun Amama

No nonsense baba omobobola

I might not be of your lineage

But I am proud to call you father

Because you are my number one role model

The origin of my inspiration

The source of my motivation

You made the journey from grass to grace look so simple

Because your life is too simple

It is not your birthday

But you deserve to be celebrated everyday

More anointing sir.

ABSOL

RECONSIDER!

I thought I will never love another girl
Until You said you are not the girl
If I wanted us to be friends
I would not have asked you to be my girlfriend
So don't tell me you want us to be friends
Because I don't want you as a friend
But a girlfriend
so do  reconsider your decision
RECONSIDER!!

ABSOL

I LOVE MY MOMMY!!!

You are strong, you are intelligent

You are wise, you are beautifully pretty

You are awesome, you are superb

You are what every man will ever wish for

Your endurance is second to none

Your strength is incomparable

Your perseverance is wonderful

Your tolerance is wow!

Mom! You are worth beyond a thousand reasons why

Your words raise me up when I fall

You go on hunger strike for me to Yummy!!!

You develop artificial insomnia for me to have sound sleep

You let go of your pleasure so I will know no pain

Even when it hurts you fake the smile so I can be happy

Without you there is no life

Thank you for giving me life

For with your memories life is awesome

Mom you are Wonderful

I LOVE YOU MOMMY!!!

ABSOL

MY SECRET LOVE

Love and death come uninvited

It caught me unaware I thought I could play if off

But days after days,

hours after hours 

minutes after minutes

The more I tried to get up, the more I slipped

And the more my heart remained adamant

At making your love so abundant

I thought I was a strong guy

Until your love made me fall

Now I can’t get up from the fall

With bruises all over my body

In an attempt to get up and wade off your love

I don’t know how and when to tell you

I’m deeply and madly in love with you

Maybe I will keep it a secret between me and my heart.

WHEN

When? Is the question I ask whenever I see you

When will I ever come across someone like you?

 When will I be able to love another person apart from you?

When will you understand that it’s either you or you?

When will you realize my love for you

Is unconditional?

When will you realize that life without you

Is weird?

When will you realize you are the only one for me?

When will you realize you are my desire

And my desire is you

When will you realize my love for you

And give me a chance to express it?

WHEN? WHEN?  WHEN?

MAKE A MOVE

It was on a beautiful Monday morning when I woke up so late due to the activities of the previous night, I had an 8:00am class and I woke up around 7:47am, Father Lord! It was like a war when guys started pushing themselves on whom to bath first, use the toilet first and do one or two things first just to cover up and not be late for class and as the custodian of the class P.A system, I must be in class before the lecturer to set the P.A system up, all I could do was brush my mouth and clean just the face at least to look fresh in the face of the sisters…lol.

I stormed out of the room like someone being pursued by a mad dog and of course at that point the fastest transportation from ETF to Faculty of Law where the class ought to hold is neither legediz benz nor sabo-lagere but motorcycle, all for me to get outside and hear different tones of Bike! Bike!! Bike!!!. About three of us were standing waiting for bike men to come and pick us up, the other two guys have been standing there waiting so I thought I should join them since they’ve been waiting as well(tradition madness), but to my surprise, another guy came and instead of joining us standing, he started trek-running away and in less than three minute he met a bike man and he was gone while we were still waiting checking the time and shouting Bike! Bike!! Bike!!! It was then I thought to myself that I should make a move and believe me as if the bike man was hiding for me to make a move, immediately I started trek-running I got a bike as well leaving the two others there, either they got a bike or not I have no idea. MAKE A MOVE!

Many times in life we believe some things are meant to happen to us by merit and so we remain where we are expecting a miracle, if you are waiting for the right time or the right moment, it will not come, you know what you have to do? MAKE A MOVE and see what happens. No doubt God factor cannot be undermined but the fact remains that heavens help only those who help themselves, God will do His part and you will do yours which is very paramount. Things are not moving the way you want them to move? What steps have you taken? Take a bold step and make a positive move. MAKE A MOVE! 

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GIVE ME A CHANCE

How do I tell you that my everything is you

How do I tell you that your absence puts me in jeopardy

And that you are my realest padi

How do I tell you I can’t do without you

That a minute without you seems like eternity

How do I tell you I want to be your everything

How do I tell you I want to feel you beside me

That I want to hold and caress you Each and every night

How do I tell you I want to be the winds that ruffle your hair

I want to be the music you listen to

How do I tell you I want to laugh with you and sing with you

Comfort you when your day’s gone wrong

How do I tell you I want to be the hand on your shoulder

And the tender touch on your face

How do I tell you that I am in love with you

Am I shy? Why shall I shy

Am I afraid of your response?

I don’t think so

So how do I tell you

I need a chance to tell you I love you

Please GIVE ME A CHANCE

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WHY I LOVE YOU

What is so special about you?

That I can’t get over you

Every day I ask myself

What is it self?

Why has my heart remain so adamant?

At making your love so abundant

I don’t know why I love you

Or maybe I know

But I don’t know that know

Why I so much love you?

I don’t know

Because you are beautiful?

Many ladies are more beautiful

Because you are sexy?

There are many more ladies that are sexy

Then why do I love you!!!???

Why I love you?

I now know the reason why I love you

Calm your nerves and listen to me

Because you mean so much to me

I love you because you make me happy

Every moment spent with you is memorable

Five hours with you is like five minutes

In your company every second is enjoyable

In your company I feel safe and secured

Because you tolerate me for who I am

Despite my rejected characters by many

You still find every reason to tolerate me

I love the look in your eyes when you smile

I love the way you say my name

I love your physique

I love your choice of dressing

I love your laugh

I love hearing your voice

I love your artistic talents and portability

I love that you get along with my family and friends

Irrespective of who they are

I love listening to your voice

I love to listen to your stories

You could  tell them a thousand times

And I will never get tired of them

Because they are part of you

But the main reason why I love you?

Hmmm…it is simply because you are you

But unfortunately…

Your heart belongs to someone else

While I am dying and getting madder

Every day over you

I pray one day you’ll see the reasons

To love me back.

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THE FEAR OF UNKNOWN

“The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown” – H.P Lovecraft, supernatural Horror in Literature

I used to be afraid of drumming, I used to be afraid of the crowd, I used to be afraid of approaching new people, I used to be afraid of talking to girls…lol…that sounds funny but believe me I used to be, then I sat down and asked myself, why am I afraid? Why the fear? What is wrong with drumming that I am afraid of it? what is so special about girls that I am always running away when it’s time to talk to one? What is it with crowd that I cannot stand before one?  But then I could not point to any reasonable reason why I was afraid. THE FEAR OF UNKNOWN

What are you afraid of? What is it that scares you? Look out for them because they don’t worth you being scared of them, the problem you are having that is making you get scared of them is the fact  that you are not ready or you are afraid of taking risk. Fear of Unknown deprives you of so many things that you would have done gallantly, things you would have achieved with ease, and things you would have gotten easily but ended up losing them because you are afraid of what you don’t know. THE FEAR OF UNKNOWN.

What room does fear have? Yes ask yourself what room does fear have? When you can claim the truth, what room does fear have when you run with perseverance? What room does fear have when you walk with faith? What room does fear have when you rest in comfort, when you take hold of inspiration? What room does fear have when you explore the possibilities and step into freedom? What room does fear have when you discover strength and embrace courage? Ask yourself: WHAT!-ROOM!-DOES!-FEAR!-HAVE!?

If there is anything I am afraid of right now, it is being afraid of getting scared of doing what I wish to do, and which of course cannot happen. Break away from the shackles of fear of unknown because you’ve got enough things to accomplish than for fear of unknown to unnecessarily hold you down. The worse that could happen is to fail and if you are afraid of failing then you are beginning to fail already.

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SECRET TO SUCCESS

It is the desire of everyone to be successful but unfortunately it is not desire of most people to know the secrets behind success and as such different definitions have been coined out for the word success. Some people believe success is when you have enough money in your bank account or when you have fleet of cars in your compound and you are popularly known everywhere, but the truth of the matter is the fact that success is not just in the amount of money you have but in the number of people you have been able to positively impact, the number of positive goals you have been able to achieve and so on because the greatest success anyone can achieve is fulfilling his/her destiny, calling and purpose in life.

I was privileged to be in one of Prof. Adesegun Fatusi’s teaching recently and he shared with us the secrets to success which has always been the most bothering question to me; “How did they do it”? what I meant by “they” is not Yoruba-English of “won” but because I have seen many of them around and so when he decided to share it with us, it was like a burden lifted and so I will be sharing it with you too but will be breaking them down in my own words, who knows who might need it as well.

The number one secret according to him is KNOW YOURSELF, knowing yourself is very paramount especially if you intend to be successful, there is always that one thing that distinguishes you from the rest, there is that thing you can do better than others, there is a way you read and understand better, there is a way you do it that others don’t, but the question is have you studied yourself well enough to know yourself? That it is working for others does not mean it will work for you, that others read overnight and pass does not mean you can do the same, that your friends are doing it does not mean you must also do it, study yourself and know what and what does not work for you.

Secondly, KNOW YOUR CALLING, knowing your calling requires extra home work on your part, you need to get close to those that already know theirs and ask them questions of how they get to recognize their own calling, calling in this sense does not necessary need to be the spiritual calling like pastor and the likes but then what you are destined to fulfill and I think the best person to ask if you would ask me is your creator which is GOD

KNOW YOUR FRIENDS, it is highly pertinent and extremely germane that you know your friends because in one way or the other, the kinds of friend you have will go a long way to determine the kind of person you will become after all, there is a saying that; show me your friend and I will know who you are.  Friends are indispensable elements in our lives and as such we need to be sagaciously meticulous in choosing them especially the ones that are likely to stay forever.

KNOW YOUR ENEMIES, as funny as that may sound, it is very important to know them. In this sense, your greatest enemies in Prof. Fatusi’s word are your “time stealers” and they are things you are quite aware of because time stealers are everywhere it depends on you to determine how much of your time you want them to steal, but the shocking thing is what steals your time is what makes money for some people, again it is left to you to calm down and realize things that steal your time.

And lastly KNOW YOUR GOD which is the most important of the entire secret to success, know your God and get close to Him and He will perfect that which concerns you. Knowing your God requires you seeking His kingdom and His righteousness first and all other things shall be added unto you.

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MONDAY MORNING

On Monday morning, everyone is on his/her toes, the ants are not left out because it is another beautiful morning to jump and enjoy the greenness and freshness of the beautiful nature around. Awolowo Hall rats rejoice because it’s time to merry and enjoy themselves to the fullest because all room occupants are out running like mad dogs to meet up with classes. The bedbugs are sad because the “foods” are out so early and as such the journey to the road of hunger strike is going to be faster, the lizards have the whole time to tongue stroll the whole room without the fear of sudden death.

On Monday morning, Bike! Bike!! Bike!!! Becomes the chorus everyone sings because you will definitely not want to be late for that 8am class, bike men (olokada) become celebrities that everyone is looking out for because without them, it is either you are late and not allowed to enter the class at all or you will most likely end up sitting on the floor (if the floor has not been kept for someone), with just #50 (depending on the distance) you will get to class even before the lecturer.

On Monday morning, Fellowship Pastors drop the bible and pick the book, they let go of microphone and pick up the telephone to ask class rep where the next class is, the choristers no longer have sofa notes but school notes.  Lecture theatres are free from the choruses and verses of worship songs but filled with the noise of students and lecturers passionately explaining and dictating notes.

Monday morning, the morning that the lazy bones never expect to come, they are always like “why on earth will Monday come again,” the morning that the legitimate hustlers are anxiously waiting for, because it is the time to put energy together again and make productive things happen.

But on Monday morning, what category of human beings do you belong? The lazy bones? Or the hard working class? What do you do on Monday morning? Do you spend your Monday morning chasing your dreams or dreaming? Do you stay in your room waiting for opportunities to come or out on your toes creating opportunities? Do you stay back while legitimate hustlers are hustling?  Monday morning signifies the start of a new working week, how productive the week will be, will be determined by you and your activities on MONDAY MORNING.

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I LOVE YOU

If I tell you that I love you

It means I am mad over you

And I can do anything to prove that to you

All that I have is for you

Because I’m yet to come across anyone like you

Just because I am crazy about you

Everything in my world is for you

I might not have 30billion in the account for you

But my body, soul and spirit is for you

I may not be able to buy the whole world for you

But I have words to tell you my world is you

Because after you na you

No doubt I am in love with you

But if you see what I’m seeing in you

You will be more in love with you

As much as I wish I could express how much I love you

Words will fail me to describe how much I love you

Because words can’t describe enough of you

All I am going to say is I LOVE YOU.

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WHAT MOTIVATES YOU?

Sometimes when I see things great men have done in the past, I ask myself, what motivated them to doing such an amazing thing? In the quest of trying to know, I decided to ask myself,  “ABSOL what motivates you?”

“What motivates me?” is a question everyone aiming at achieving greater heights in life must ask him/herself and provide a tangible and reasonable answer to it. Some people wake up each and every morning with no goals or aims, some just wake up because they have to do so and more so to go to work/class. Because others are doing it does not mean you must also do it, some enters library because others are going to the library or probably their best friend or most especially their crush decided to, some goes into  business because others are also doing the business, and some even eat and do other daily routines because others are doing it. NO! NO!! NO!!! WAKE UP!!! Wake up to the reality of what motivates you, don’t just do it because others are doing it, stop following the crowd and stand out! Even if you are mocked or you are given different names for doing so, in as much as you know what you are after, their opinions matter less.

A lion is motivated by the desire to maintain its greatness and powerful attributes and so it doesn’t do what other animals do not to talk of mingling with them. Every football club is motivated by the desire to win trophies and as such they go as far as spending millions on achieving their goals. The question is what motivates you?

Most people spend a minimum of 8 hours a day into their work not because they have anything motivating them to stay that long but because of the money involved to pay their bills, but you are not fulfilling your calling by chasing after money. You will feel motivated when you chase your dreams and fulfilling your destiny and not money because money is not everything, it is only a means to an end and not an end in itself and as a matter of fact money will certainly come when you fulfill your dreams. Study yourself and discover what motivates you.

PRAISE HIM FIRST!!!

If I want my dad to give me anything, it is very simple, all I need is to make him happy and make his head swell, BUT HOW?....very simple, simply wash his car, polish his shoes, iron his cloth and to crown it all pound yam for him, at that point my dad is ready to grant me any of my request. Now, if my earthly father can do that because of that, how much more my/your heavenly Father.
Many people complain of their unanswered prayers but ask them, are they praying the right way?.......Praying the right way requests applying the right technique which if wrongly applied might render a "seven days" prayer session useless.
People can pray ehn?....but many pray the wrong way which they don't know.....
The disciples asked Jesus ...."Rabbi teach us how to pray" and Jesus gave them a very simple but technical way of praying....he started with....."our father who hath in heaven...."
God deserves to be praised and adored, no number of hours is too small or too much to praise Him. Have you ever wondered why David was tagged the man after God's own heart? Because he understood how to worship God the right way and even bible says "e je ki ope wa ki o po ju ibeere wa lo"...therefore give him enough worship and make His head swell such that He will grant you that which your heart desires and more which you don't know....
The rest of the template given by Jesus was more of asking and asking.....and in conclusion....
He said
"For thy is the Kingdom... The power and glory...."
Very simple!! You start with praise and adoration and you end with same. Stay blessed.

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WOMEN!!!

Women! Delicate creatures in the best of times. They are moved by their desires unknown by men that put trust in them.  Either you like it or not they remain the most powerful up till times to come. They don’t fight with weapons neither do they know how to handle any, yet, they are capable of destroying lives, ruining Nations without the lift of any weapon. Any live they support is not only supported by men of this world but by the hosts of “invincibles,” their weakness can be the most powerful support of such.

Behind every man they say is a woman yet behind every failed man as well, if well investigated is a woman he has failed, jilted, dumped, used, at a point in his life. With every woman lies the road to heaven, hell, success and failure. If she allows you to pass through the road joyfully, you’re blessed beyond description, if you forcefully pass through the road without her consent, I strongly doubt your making it in life.

Never force her to do anything not out of her will because such will lead to if not partial failure, total failure. Never underestimate the power of  a woman because with her lies life and death, success and failure, joy and sadness.

Never argue with her because every word you speak shall be used against you either for good or the other way round. If she hates you, just go your way because it takes the gods to make her like you and so is it the other way round, if she willingly loves you, she can go to any length to please, satisfy and maintain you, but if you break her heart, OYO is your case bro.

Never shout on her unnecessarily else you want to see erosion of tears on her cheeks, she might not actually shed it in your presence but deep in her closet all tissue paper available at that time have suffered.

If well educated, they can be the most brilliant, if not, they can be and remain the dullest, use not money to play with them because you cannot and can never win such a game.

RESPECT EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE AROUND YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE SPECIAL AND DELICATE BEINGS.

INSPIRED BY ALL MY FEMALE FRIENDS AND DEDICATED TO YOU ALL.

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